I just read a book called "Romancing your Husband" by Debra White Smith. It's a christian book and had alot to say about what submitting to your husband really means and why it is so important for romance. All the married women should check this one out  

I just finished reading this great book called "Romancing your husband" by Debra White Smith. It is a christian book and she talks alot about submitting to your husbands and uses lots of bible verses to help us understand what submitting really means in a realtionship. Check your local library for a copy. Hopefully it will shed some light on the subject.