I have a question.  It's about the physical form of a person.  Is it unbiblical or a sin to not be attracted or not interested in another human.  For example we are supposed to love all, but what makes a wife separate?  Should her looks come into play at all?   When is it selfish, when is it natural and is this "natural" part the "flesh" or sin part.  I've met women who would have made great wives but I rejected them as a possibility.  

I also go by the theory from the book "I kissed Dating Good Bye" which states all physical contact should be avoided when dating, outside of friends hugging or shaking hands.

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  I have a question.  It's about the physical form of a person.  Is it unbiblical or a sin to not attracted or not interested in another human.  For example we are supposed to love all, but makes a wife separate?  Should her looks come into play at all?  I'm concerning my question to a woman and her looks.  When is it selfish, when is it natural and is this "natural" part the "flesh" or sin part.  I've met women who would have made great wives but I rejected them as a possibility.  I also go by the theory from the book "I kissed Dating Good Bye" which states all physical contact should be avoided when dating, outside of friends hugging or shaking hands.

Should we avoid media with cursing or just not curse ourselves?  

Should you tithe if you are in debt?  

He made us all different, all different parts of the body, right?  You are to use the skills you have to worship Him, i.e. to serve others and His kingdom which is others.  If you can lead in a church, then lead.  If you can teach a skill that people want or need that does not contradict that faith then teach it.  What you are good at is from the Lord I believe if it's not contradicting the word.  I'm a teacher in a public school.  I have plans to change my room, education level and outside activities related to the school, but I feel God has me in the school for a reason and that's what I like.  Full term ministry is not for me.  I do minister to youth with in the church though.