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Title: dating unsaved ppl Post by: parkker007 on June 20, 2005, 08:29:26 PM hey guys. i have this problem. i just read a book that says not to date someone who is not christian, just because you think you can save that person, but to let her close friends talk to her. well, i really like this girl, and she is definetly not christian, but shes pretty nice. i am always saying to myself that i should try to go out with her and when im reli close to her, talk to her about God. i mean, i love her and would never want to let her go to hell. am i willing to leave her eternal life in the balance of whether or not someone else will talk to her? i could never live with myself if she goes to hell and i did nothing about it. i am not sure what to do... thanks.
Title: Re:dating unsaved ppl Post by: Soldier4Christ on June 20, 2005, 08:51:46 PM We should always be concerned about other people salvation and try to lead them to Jesus. Getting close to someone that you know is not saved is not a wise idea. An unsaved person can drag you down no matter how nice a person they may be.
Why wait till you get close to them? We should testify to them now and try to bring them to Jesus immediately. Time is wasting and there is no idea what tomorrow may bring. Title: Re:dating unsaved ppl Post by: JudgeNot on June 20, 2005, 11:33:13 PM parkker007,
Talk to her about Jesus FIRST. I think her reaction to your faith will ultimately govern your judgment. (FYI, you already know that your judgment will be good judgment as long as Jesus is part of the decision making process.) If she has a negative reaction to Jesus, I don't think you will find her nearly as attractive as you do now... If she has a positive reaction - you go guy! :) |