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     As I shared in my get to know me post, lots of pitfall have come this familys way lately. I feel strong, rightouse indignation I believe. I know pray works so I am asking you all to agree with me. For the many needs of this family.

     My mother and I were raising my 4 yr old cousin cause his Mom lost him over drugs. There are charges still pending against her in the state of Mo. His biological grandma really didn't show alot of interest in him until he passed the 2 yr marker for being Hepititis C free. (His mother is hep C positive among many other problems) The grandmother begin to fight for him, lawyers judges the whole bit. WE were assured that the state of Mo, and the division of family services, plus the court atlightium, who holds tons of weight would support my Mom. They all did, not the judge they took our son away from us and gave him to nearly strangers his grandma, who helped his bio mom flee from the charges against her in mo, who lives only a few blocks away from the grandma. The grandmother even helps pay for her kids abortions, has a husband who is addict to porn, booze and pot. ANd is into new age...the bio mom is still doing drugs, and messin with witchcraft. Its temporary until his grandma can prove herself and home fit.....but WHY WHY WHY. This is the only home this little boy has ever known.   :'(  I get so angery with the system, with his grandma, I know God didn't intend for it to be like this. I don't know how but I KNOW that I know, the devil has played with the system, and I demand my son to be returned to me in the name of Jesus.
      Please pray that Zack would be returned to us. We've asked for a new trial, pray that the judge will grant this, and reverse his decesion.
    My second pray need is my son is in Iraq, he is a first year marine. Seen stuff, experienced stuff that no kid of 19 should. Pray a hedge of protection for him physically and emotionally.  and that he return soon.
    my second daughter suffers from such low self esteem because of sexual abuse and the system let her abusers go, (she was only 9, now 13) pray that the Lord would shine forth in her life and the pain would be gone. I'm a survivor too, and so that makes life hard for me, my own messed up head sometimes.
     My marriage suffers with all the stress we live with as well. thanks for listening to my soap opera life.
blessing in the name of Jesus.

Will do musicllover.  Been there, worked out good.  Pray also for the Lord to touch whoever's heart is involved in the say so of anything that needs to be determined, the Judges, or worker, or whoever.  I'll pray for this on a regular basis.  Remember, all things are possible in Him.  :)  I have to keep reminding myself of that.  

I will keep you and your family in prayer. This sounds like a very difficult time for you, and I'm so sorry to hear all you've endured. Keep an eye on your daughter and talk to her to make sure she doesn't begin to see herself as less worthy than everyone else--keep an eye out for self-destructive behaviors. This often happens to girls who have been through this type of abuse, and it can influence every area of her life including choice of friends and eventually marriage partner. Help her make positive decisions, even though she might not want to. But it isn't just the isolated behavior that's the problem, it's the thought proceses behind it. Can you get her in to get some professional help?

Thank you for your agreements. I continue in my faith and belief that my son will be returned to us. Many time it seems weak but the word promises that faith as small as a mustard see.... Continue to pray that we would have favor with the judge who made the wrong decesion. Some judges can bet kinda of  vandictive when their decesions are questioned. Today was the last day to file for a new trial, and our lawyer was to suppose to have petioned by now. I don't know how long this process takes but the life of a child is in the balance between good and evil......
      Yes my daughter had therapy for a year following the situaiton. I've been in councilling as well. I know the stastictics. There are moments when I think she should return, it difficult to know when its normal teenage behavior or the stuff from the abuse. Me I totally block out stuff until it had to come back and slap me up side the head thru the abuse of my own daughter.  
   Thanks for listening to these needs.
God is good.....