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Fellowship => Just For Women => Topic started by: ash2005 on February 01, 2005, 09:25:16 PM



Title: please help me
Post by: ash2005 on February 01, 2005, 09:25:16 PM
i have dated this guy for 2 years and yeah i love this guy...well you have the typical boy girl problems like arguing about things..well a few month ago he didnt actually tell me that he wanted to break up with me he just brought another girl home and to let me find out about it so then i would get mad and then he could break up with me...well then he got tired of that girl so then he called me and said he was apolizing for what he had done and that he lvoed me and promised that he would never do it again..well i took him back and now like 3 days ago he did the same thing to me over a different girl..he is now playing like 2 girls...i am upset because of what he done to me no so much of losing him again but that he did the same thing to me again....i regret of going abck with him...maybe if i would have waited until now that he would be ok again to get back with..i do and i dont want him to come back again although i dont hink i can stand the pain over again....in your opinion do you think that he will come back again for the third time please help??


Title: Re:please help me
Post by: gary cook on February 02, 2005, 11:09:37 AM
sure ,he knows your a sucker .but you may catch something very bad .and destory you ,maybe destory kids .but if you love the LORD at all .dump that loser .get your eyes on the LORD .You have nothing but pain with that guy . It will only get worse .he thinks nothing of you .find a righteous man .Who loves the LORD more than you or himself .Then you will know real love .You get the chance ?Fast 3 days watrer only .read the bible ,pray to be pleasing to your creator .Don"t live in the flesh as you will suffer here .Then you may go to a worse place .But have a little faith in the LORD .Looks like you love people more than the creator .This is very bad .Because you are on a losing roadf .God did not make YOU to be tricked like this .He made you tpo be a kings child .live HIS life and you will be happy .


Title: Re:please help me
Post by: M on February 03, 2005, 12:25:01 PM
Would you want to be married to someone who is cheating on you and then wants to come back?  And repeats this over and over.  In many marriages, this is reason for divorce.  

Why date someone for 2 years?  Isn't the purpose of dating to find a spouse?  Some Christian women don't even date.  They have a "courtship" with the man they will marry.