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SOmetime I feel like I am sinking and losing control of myself.  I am a mom of two and have been married for 4 years.  My husband works full time during the day and my six year old goes to school while I stay at home with my three year old.  Also I am only 26 and most of the women that are at the same maturity level in there like at my church don't know how to relate to me or they are quick to pass judgement on me because of my age.  I guess they feel like I don't have a clue because I am young.  So most of my time is spent with my husband and kids and anytime I try to do anything by or for myself they all complain as if I am just invading in on their time.  I really don't understand and I pray alot so I don't say things I do not really mean because sometimes I just get angry and want to scream at them all to leave me alone so I can just think for a second.  I really feel bad when I feel this way.  I feel selfish and quilty.  If anyone has any advice or can relate please let me know.   :'(    

What do you and the little one do during the day?

 You could do something as simple as taking a daily walk maybe after the evening meal while he watches the children? Its what I used to do, and it really helps clear the cobwebs  ;)

Welcome to Christian's Unite love4god!! ;D


I will Pray for you sweetie.

To me it sounds the women in the Church are selfish and wrapped up in their own little worlds.

Do you sew Sis?  How about some crafts you can make?

Love Sis,

KristiAnn

ME AND THE LITTLE ONES DO STUFF LIKE GO TO THE PARK OR WALKING,GOTO THE POOL OR JUST RUN ERRANDS AS FAR AS ME BEING ABLE TO TAKE A WALK MY HUSBAND IS VERY PROTECTIVE AND DOES NOT LIKE FOR ME TO GO WALKING BY MYSELF BUT i DO GO WITH MY BABY IN THE MORNINGS MOST OF THE TIME   i AM STARTING TO GET BETTER WITH EVERYTHING I BELIEVE ALOT OF IT HAS TO DO WITH MY TEMPERMENT ANY WAY i HAVE A LITTLE ON E SCREEAAMING RIGHT NOW GOT A GO GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU  

Let us know how it's going!  :D


And remember that three year olds are very trying at best!  ;) I always figured God made 'em cute to protect 'em!  ;)

 

rofl  :P

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awww first of all... Your not alone!
My son started kindergarten this year..and im home with my little one.  I have a car now...but my husband hasnt taken the time to get me to take my drivers test.  (My license expired when we moved to FL..we are back in TN Now)  
Now..yes I dont have time for myself. I have to stretch it between 2 small children and 3 dogs.  :)
Now.. the people at church are Wonderful I adore them...but I havent made any friends either. I dont think they look at us with judgment as much as... they dont know how to relate to us.  Its easy for others to make presumptions about us before really getting to know us.  Like one person liked me..always talked to me before the found out I did web pages and fixed computers.  All in a sudden they quit talking to me. I dont get paid for what i do..i do it cause its my gift God gave me. I  use my talent for him and not for personal gain.  I get depressed over it..but I also pray for the Lord to speak to the person/persons that act that way.  Feel free to vent to me..i know where your at. I sometimes climb all 4 walls.  I even take 5 mins and lock myself into one room of the house where no child can get to me as soon as he gets home.  He understands I need the 5 minute break. After that Im refreshed till thier bedtime.  ;D ;)