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hi everyone.. i havent been here for awhile but i wanted to drop in a prayer request,, As some of you know, my husband and I are seperated, but Im still in the house and will be till i get everything that is coming to me... He is acting really nasty and things are getting worse.. and trying to do everything he can to "scare" me and all that but its not working and he is getting desperate, so things are getting heated, I have 2 kids and they are coming with me, and so  without going into it a long time and trust me theres alot of crap going ona dn alot of trying to hide things and being decieving (by him and his parents..) I just thought i'd drop in and ask if ya'll can just say a quick prayer that God will shut the mouth of the lion.. and help things to go smoothly, I want to keep my kids outa the circus he is trying hard to ensue. and to keep things outta the courts.. i have a feeling if things arent intervened by God.. things are gonna get really very messy indeed..
thanks for the prayers.. im only online enuff to pop on and off .. (living in same house when seperated is about as hellish as you can get in a house.. seriously not good..
im sorry i havent been on.. to my friends here i apologise , truly.. but things here just so crazy..
luv and hugs
Tigerlily

Tigerlilly, I know we don't know each other, but I'm in a similar situation, and if you'd like to PM me, I'd be glad to pray for specifics, help share whatever burden I can, and maybe you'd have counsel that could help me!
Prayers up!

Prayers for all.

 HimAll4 , Hi I'd love to be able to chat with you personally, privately but theres no way to PM here.. (unless im unaware that its been put back on..) i have my msn Id on here if you'd like to do it thru that way or my hotmail address, I sure could use someone to chat with and maybe I can help u in some way either way praying for each others specific needs certainly would be something that could help..
thank u so much for your prayers and thoughtfulness
thank you to PR..

luv and hugs
TL

I will be praying for you Tigerlily. I am still praying for you Him4All. May God Bless and comfort you both and your families as well.

Thank you, PR, prayers are most DEFINITELY appreciated.


((((hugs)))))  Okie, you're a sweetheart, thanks.

thank you both so much , truly do appreciate it..
hugs
TL

Hello Tigerlily,

Sister, you are still in my daily prayers regarding your health, and I'll add the current problems. I'm very sorry to hear this and will definitely be praying for you.

In the meantime - know that we love you in CHRIST and KEEP LOOKING UP!

Love In Christ,
Tom

Psalms 116:12-13 NASB  What shall I render to the LORD For all His benefits toward me?  I shall lift up the cup of salvation And call upon the name of the LORD.

hi Tom.. thanks for your prayers, they are as always much appreciated... this is why im not on here to much.. or online a whole lot for that matter.. much to do with packing and all..findin a house etc..
I know im loved and i thank you and everyone for that..
God bless
luv and hugs
TL

Hello TL, as you know I'm praying for you sister.  I will keep praying for you, for health, family, and home.

Sorry to hear this.  Praying that things will work out for you, your children and your husband.

I am divorced, so I can certainly appreciate your pain.  Know that our God is able to help us overcome.  My prayers are with all involved.

hi tiger lily,

you don't know me, but i am seperated at this time too.  i have posted a couple of times about this situation.  my husband is not being mean or nasty, he wants me to have the house, but he is being emotionally abusive to some extent. he wants to be able to come to the house and spend time with the kids while he is dating his friend.  i told him it doesn't work that way, he keeps running back and forth between us and i told him that doesn't work either. so i know sort of what you are going thru.  and i pray that god will be with you thru this as he has been with me.  how old are your kids? ours are 13, 17, and 18. but it still affected them and still is.  so i will pray that you can keep your kids out of it.  but you do have to let go of some of your anger.  i know it will be hard to do, it took me 2years and a nasty email to his friend to finally let go of mine, also alot of prayer.  god has seen me thru so much.  and i know he will see you thru this.

god bless

gina

As PR stated.  My prayers go out to all.

Here is an up-date on TL

TigerLily is almost completely settled into her new home... there has been lots of people helping her, and even some who brought her groceries, and she is doing great!

Shes simply been too busy to set the computer up she says.

Thanks for the update, brother.

Brother, thanks for the update. I was sorry to hear about the divorce, but I'm glad that she's getting her life back together. Please say hello for all of us and tell her we're still praying for her.

Love In Christ,
Tom

Philippians 3:14 NASB  I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

Ditto those sentiments

Having been there myself I know how hard it is trying to build that new life and helping the kids deal with a new life with their parent's in separate households.. Tigerlily, I wish you the best of luck and I will keep you in my prayers as this new chapter in your life begins.

God is good....I pray for the children in the situation....for salvation for the husbands...It hurts to know the decline of the family...even in the body...Even though you have been through divorce...pray for salvation for your ex-spouse and pray for the families in the body...

So glad you came to this forum...and more so..glad I came and have met you..

Maryjane

Tiger-lily your pray shall be answered, My wife and I are going through the same.  And we I also have two kids, so
pray for me also.  We all need to pray for those who prosecute us, just as Jesus died for us when we were still
lost in our own sins.  Pray and pray alot.   Be of good courage stand strong in the Lord for there is were the
victory is won.  See here I am going through the same thing yet the Lord has sent me to encourage you in
your trials.  Fight for Love thats what Jesus died for.  Stand strong with all your strenghth and the Lord our God
shall be revealed.   So glorify God in all that you do.

   Tiger-lily its me again I  just thought I would let you know, that I am the one thats driving my wife crazy by
doing stupid things,  my insuceritys  are driving her crazy pray for me also that God would intervene in my life
and the way that I treat her so that her and I dont wind up on the divorce chopping blocks Please!!!!!!!!!!

Mislead As we pray for Tiger we shall also pray for you and your wife and the marriage.