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Title: Grudges
Post by: Warrior of God on October 13, 2006, 09:45:55 PM
Sorry if i am posting this in the wrong section, but i have a question about grudges. As a christian man should i hold grudges against people that have a grudge against me? Or should i just let it go and ignore that person? Or should i just tell him, we don't need to have grudges against eachother, that's not what man is made for. Help me out.


Title: Re: Grudges
Post by: Soldier4Christ on October 13, 2006, 10:08:23 PM
Hello Warrior,

Welcome to Christians Unite.

Grudges are the lack of forgiveness. We are told in scripture by Jesus that we are to forgive men their tresspasses. We are also told to love our enemies. This does not mean that we neccessarily have to have anything to do with them after that. If that person is not willing to forgive us then we need to move on and let it go, let them go their own way.





Title: Re: Grudges
Post by: Brother Jerry on October 17, 2006, 09:18:14 AM
What PR had to say.  And the only other thing to add would be to add that person to your prayer list.  (And not in a fashion you would wish them harm....but that peace would come to their heart and soul and all would work out to the will of God).


Title: Re: Grudges
Post by: airIam2worship on October 17, 2006, 06:17:35 PM
Amen Pr and Brother Jerry