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« Reply #15 on: October 28, 2007, 04:44:21 PM »

Brother David, Think on this a minute did you lose a friend? Or did you lose an acquaintance? A friend would not so easily get upset and leave over this.

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« Reply #16 on: October 28, 2007, 05:15:52 PM »

Think on this a minute did you lose a friend? Or did you lose an acquaintance? A friend would not so easily get upset and leave over this.



AMEN!!

A true friend will stick with you, through thick and thin no matter what.
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« Reply #17 on: October 28, 2007, 05:32:38 PM »

we will see shortly
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« Reply #18 on: October 28, 2007, 08:51:50 PM »

Hey David:

I agree that if Sissy is a true friend she will be with you through thick and thin.

Don't forget making amends and forgiveness go hand in hand.

Will be praying over you and your friendship.

Love in Christ, Eva 

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« Reply #19 on: October 28, 2007, 09:16:54 PM »

I was looking back at what I said and it isn't pushing she is mad at, I judged and called her religion false. She has every right not to be friend anymore and hate me  Cry
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« Reply #20 on: October 28, 2007, 09:28:41 PM »

Brother David, you wouldn't be much of a friend if you didn't tell her the truth of the Gospel.

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« Reply #21 on: October 28, 2007, 10:02:51 PM »

but we are to love and respect each other. I HURT HER ALOT! Now I have to live with this guilt until she talks to me
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« Reply #22 on: October 29, 2007, 12:24:08 AM »

but we are to love and respect each other. I HURT HER ALOT! Now I have to live with this guilt until she talks to me

Hello Brother David,

Eternity is at stake so this is much more important than temporary hurt feelings, but I still understand. Salvation conversations get pretty hot even within someone's own family. I'm glad that I don't have the burden of thinking that someone in my family is lost. This is something I give thanks for every day because I love them, care for them, and want to spend eternity together with them in Heaven. What could be more important than this?

Brother David, I do know Christians who struggle with the burden of a lost friend or family member every day of their lives. There obviously isn't any desire to hurt them - just the opposite. It might or might not help to explain why it's so important that you share JESUS CHRIST and the CROSS with them. You don't want them to spend eternity in Hell. You're not trying to hurt them or make them mad, rather you want CHRIST to rescue them from the horrible wrath to come. Witnessing with friends and family members is many times a very difficult and unpleasant task. Things are really the opposite of what the WORLD considers on this subject. It really boils down to do we care enough to try and keep trying. We should always pray and ask GOD to help us, but that still doesn't mean that it will be easy.

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« Reply #23 on: October 29, 2007, 08:50:35 AM »

Brother, thank you but that isn't what I was doing. You would need alot of information to understand what exactly is going on.

I am indeed in the wrong. Please understand that much. I lost a great friend
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« Reply #24 on: October 29, 2007, 09:45:25 AM »

Good Morning Brother David!

Brother, I'll just pray for you. Let me know if there is something I can do to help you, and I'll do my best.

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« Reply #25 on: October 30, 2007, 01:35:55 AM »

Brother David, you wouldn't be much of a friend if you didn't tell her the truth of the Gospel.


However, we are told to "speak the truth in love." Too often people try to justify criticism by saying, "I'm only saying it because I care." I'm afraid I've been guilty more times than I care to count of criticizing and NOT doing it in love.
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« Reply #26 on: October 30, 2007, 09:28:15 AM »

However, we are told to "speak the truth in love." Too often people try to justify criticism by saying, "I'm only saying it because I care." I'm afraid I've been guilty more times than I care to count of criticizing and NOT doing it in love.
Amen. Exactly what I did to hurt sissy
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