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I KNOW, I know, this is a men's only forum. I just wanted to "ask the guys" a couple questions. First, how can I show my husband that I love him? What kinds of things make men feel like MEN?
Also, I do notice the huge amount of porn EVERYWHERE, and it is so embarassing and humiliating to me. It really pains me to see it incorporated into everything. Early in my marriage, my husband did not know to change the channel or fastforward inappropriate scenes, and I was so very very heartbroken and disapointed at some of the things he has tolerated his eyes to see. He is learning now, and I am wondering if there is anything (besides pray for him) that I can do to help him in this area? Can I offer any of the helpful tips I've read on this forum, or would that offend or threaten him?
Also, I do notice the huge amount of porn EVERYWHERE, and it is so embarassing and humiliating to me. It really pains me to see it incorporated into everything. Early in my marriage, my husband did not know to change the channel or fastforward inappropriate scenes, and I was so very very heartbroken and disapointed at some of the things he has tolerated his eyes to see. He is learning now, and I am wondering if there is anything (besides pray for him) that I can do to help him in this area? Can I offer any of the helpful tips I've read on this forum, or would that offend or threaten him?
Is he a Christian? My personal opinion is I wouldn't marry someone unless they were Christian. If it makes you feel uncomfortable tell him. Most men I know aren't mind readers. Tell him exactly how you feel. Communication is a huge part of a relationship. I think he would respect you being truthful to him.
I don't think sex will help the situation. It will probably only harm your relationship. Once you have sex all the time it loses it's meaning. It should be something shared between to people that is showing love and should be sacred. If you have to much sex it will get old. Eventually the sex will be just for plessure and lose meaning.
I'm new here. Just wanted to introduce myself a bit. I love being a free spirit. I'm crazy about God. I love God with all my heart and soul. He is my everything. Christianity is colorful. Jesus rawks my sawks!!! I love my church!!! Rockin' out to God in church is my thing. I pray one day that I'll be a pastor of my own church. I spend lots of time talking and praying to God. I'm a real prayer warrior. I love leading people to Jesus. Jesus is my Savior. I pray to meet lots of Christians here. If you want to know anything else about me, I'm very open, just ask. God bless you all.